Beechholme feature
 

A collection of memories and photos almost exclusively received from Ex Beechholmers.........
If you recognize a name or would like to add your own memories please contact us here . 

 


Latest Addition - FIVE new photos from Peter Farmer.

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Great War Memorial

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Beechholme memorial

The Beechholme British Red Cross Unit 140 - memories from 1953 


My name is Brian Sutcliffe and as a member of the British Red Cross Society I was asked if I would help to run  Unit 140 of the Junior Red Cross at Beechholme. This was in early 1952. An Enrolment Ceremony was held in December 1952 and another in January 1953. First Aid examinations followed in due course following courses in instruction and training.

Red Cross Badge The youngsters proved to be a lively bunch, some shy, some brash, some just waiting for something to burst out from amongst their thoughts. I had a good relationship with them and they mostly behaved quite well. I worked them hard and they responded with a bright cheerfulness.

 

They loved the drill and marching as part of the parades just as much as other subjects such as first aid and bandaging.  Their smartness must have impressed someone, for on 15th September 1953 the Cadets escorted me up to London on the train, there to assemble at the foot of the steps of St. Pauls Cathedral to await the Princess Royal who was attending the Annual Service of the BRCS. There were some very proud faces on that day, I can tell you - me included!

 

Various examinations in First Aid were undertaken by the Cadets, who impressed the inspecting officers with a good turn out at the annual inspection.

 

When I left Beechholme I was given an autograph book inscribed "To Cadet Officer B. O. Sutcliffe.  Please accept this small gift from the Cadets and Officers of Unit 140, as a token of appreciation, and interest taken in them." Signed by Capt Larkin,

Mr D H Reynolds, L Stears. Then followed these names G I Wilson, Jean George, Jean Bedwell, Betty Albers, Sylvia Amos, Margaret Pearson, Cecilia Howden, David Johnston, Michael Drummond, Michael Marshall, Jimmy Smithers, John Smithers, Brian Drummond, Maurice F Bunce, Keith Daly, then "Down by the river carved on a rock three little words for-get-me-not" James Daly 29.9.54. I still have that little book for it is very precious, and at 82 still brings a tear to my old eyes. What memories!

 

British Red Cross
Read more about the British Red Cross here.

I was sorry to leave Beechholme on 29th September 1954, but I had joined the staff of the British Leprosy Relief Association (BELRA) and after a year on their headquarters staff sailed to Nigeria where I served as a Leprosy Lay-worker, initially at Itu in S E Nigeria on the Cross River. During the next few years I was sent to other more remote places finishing up with the secession of Biafra and the ensuing civil war - but that it quite another story and quite of enough of me. This is supposed to be memories (and very happy memories) of Beechholme.

Brian Sutcliffe

 

Note from webmaster -
Are you one of the children Brian mentions? Do you remember your time with Unit 140? Write in and tell us about it here .

 

Mouldy old dump!

Today I was listening to Radio 4 and heard someone mention and hum the tune to a hymn. Straight away I realised this was where the Beechholme song had come from. The song that begins "There is a mouldy dump" is a bowdlerised version of the hymn 'There is a happy land'. Same tune, same phrasing, just the words have been changed. I guess they once used to sing this hymn in the Beechholme church, though I never heard it there. Perhaps they dropped it from the services when the song was made up, otherwise they would have got the mouldy dump version sung in church.

Best wishes from Roger Armstrong,
Beechholme 1956-1963.

 
Reunited after 47 years.

Yvonne Russell nee McCarthy contacted us when she found her photograph on our Beechholme feature.

Yvonne is an ex Beechholme resident who now has a studio at Morden Hall Park, just a few miles away from Banstead.   A sample of her work can be seen on the right. 

Yvonne trained as a painter and earlier this year (2009) held an exhibition of her work at Morden Hall Park.

Yvonne is a big character in more ways than one and would be delighted to see you, so if you are in the area, pop in and ask for her and tell her you saw her pictures on the BHRG website. Everyone knows her!

  Yonne Russell painting
See more of Yvonne':s pictures at www.yvonnerussell.co.uk.
 
Beechholme 1962 Yvonne only had four photos of herself up to the age of twenty so she was really pleased to get the one on the left which shows her next to her best friend June .

June now lives in Canada but visited the UK in July 2009 and met up with her old mate Yvonne a mere forty seven years after the photo on the left was taken! Here they are in 2009 - hardly changed at all. 

June and Yvonne in the UK 2009

 
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- THE BOOK!.............   update 8 March 2010
 draft cover for Beechholme new book


Negotiations with the London Metroplitan archives have been completed and we now have the  permission required to use their collecton of photographs. In addition we have this week received three new Beechholme photos dating from about 1895, which will be included in the book.  They were in an album held by Steve Tatum, a photographic enthusiast who purchased the album some 30 years ago. He has since been trying to identify the location and having Googled "Girls cottages Banstead" he found our website.

As usual, Ralph's time has been in great demand by all the local organisations he is involved with, but the news is that he is now getting towards the end of the Beechholme book project.  We have at least 100 people who have been on the waiting list for some considerable time who will no doubt be pleased to hear that.  We hope to announce a date that the publication will be available soon. 

We are still interested to see any photographs or hear of any memories you may have of Beechholme. Mail the Webmaster with any contributions. He always replies! Additionally, we now have a new facility here to allow you to upload photographs to a special site which will contain a photographic archive of Banstead. where you can take a look at the photos from 1895 and also add any comments.
 


Public contribution to BHRG Jan 2019 - Diane Hipple sent us her memories of the 1960's.
Public contribution to BHRG Nov 2009 - Peter Farmer sent us his memories of the mid to late 50's along with a group photo.
Public contribution to BHRG Apr 2009 - Tony Lynham tells us all about his memories of the late 1940 where he remembers another young boy, John Bonnette who wrote to us two years ago.
Public contribution to BHRG May 2009 - Frank Rowsell researching Elizabeth (Beth) Chalk
Public contribution to BHRG Mar 2009 - Joy Bridges nee Dawson tells us about her chickens at Beechholme.. Read her memories here.
Public contribution to BHRG Mar 2009 - Penny Wright writes about her memories of residential school and how Beechholme impacted her life.
Public contribution to BHRG Feb 2009 - John Ireland sent in a great photo of the ':Maple tribe' on holiday in Wales as well as a story about one of his great escapes!
Public contribution to BHRG Feb 2009 - Roger Armstrong who now has new information having acquired his records from the London Metropolitan Archives. Roger was at Beechholme in the mid 1950s.
Public contribution to BHRG Oct 2008 - Helen Bowker wrote about her mum Vera Ida Washington who was at Beechholme for ten years between 1925 and 1935.
Public contribution to BHRG Sep 2008 - Valerie Kassl (nee Baker) wrote in enquiring about her father Edward Henry Gent . Valerie also describes the process of obtaining his records.
Public contribution to BHRG Aug 2008 - James Daly wrote about his time at Beechholme (1945 -1956) . James lists a few of the names he recalls from that time.
Public contribution to BHRG Apr 2008 - Susan Furlong nee Charlott (Laurel) wrote about her time at Beechholme (1960 -1967) . She was only 3 months old when she first went there and in her own words "I would love to be in some kind of contact with people who might be able to put some meaning into my early years having spent time there as well".
Public contribution to BHRG Jan 2008 - June Brown (Acacia and Hazel) who spotted herself in one of our pictures and has clear memories (1951 -1964) of her 13 years at Beechholme.
Public contribution to BHRG Nov 2007 - Philip Condon (via Peter Eliot) sent a 1936 Group photo . Philip was at Beechholme for a few months that year.
Public contribution to BHRG Nov 2007 - Clive Parish (Kerria) sent in memories and photos from the late fifties and early sixties. Clive was at Beechholme with his three sisters Christine, Carol and Gwendoline Parish.
Public contribution to BHRG Jun 2007 - Gillian Stile Los nee Stile (Acacia) sent in her memories from 1947 -1961 Gillian has sent in two photos of Mr Banner....but we're saving the best one for the book!
Public contribution to BHRG Jun 2007 - Susan Darocha nee Hillen (Thistle) sent in her memories from the early 1950's Sue also sent in several photos...
Public contribution to BHRG Mar 2007 - John Bonnette sent his recollection from 1939 He well remembers his visits to the German dentist. He would say "Open your mouth vide Tommy", we were all Tommy to him...."
Public contribution to BHRG Mar 2007 - Frank Heard (Maple) wrote about his many many memories and names We visited Frank at his home in Dartford and he kept us entertained for about four hours with lots of funny and mischievous stories from his days at Beechholme.
Public contribution to BHRG Jan 2007 - Clive Artingstall sent a variety of memories of Fir and Acacia from the mid to late fifties. Clive also includes a different version of the Beecholme song.
Public contribution to BHRG Thanks to Mrs Leese (nee Gibbs) for her short update on Frank and Freda Gibbs. Fred was Housemaster of Fir during the 1950's.
Public contribution to BHRG Bruce Grant is looking for any information on Miss Barker who later became Mrs Day. Bruce sent us his memories of life at Beechholme .
Public contribution to BHRG Tom Cline (then Tom Graham) who was at Beechlome from 1964 - 1971 Rendall House, Cedar House. Tom has offered to send in his memories.
Keep them Coming!.............

** Scroll down for lots of Beechholme memories and photographs
This story below needs a nice picture of ACACIA but we don't have one. Please get in touch if you do.
Don't worry if it's crumpled and torn etc as we should be able to fix that digitally and probably send you a far better copy than the one you have.
Public contribution to BHRG January 2010 - Memories from Diana Hipple nee Lawrence from the 1960s.    

I just wanted to get in touch and let you know that what Clive says is exactly how I remember it, although my story was slightly different. 
Diana in Acacia - Beechholme
Diana in Acacia


My brothers and sister went to Beechholme, in about 1960/61. We were the Lawrence family that were put in Acacia house.  My name is Diana and I would have been five years old, my sister Cherry was 3, brother Tony 7 and brother Terry 9.  Tony, Cherry and I were put in Acacia and my brother Terry was I think in Laurel.

I remember the first day of arrival even at such an early age. It was a Sunday salad for tea. Being kids we were not that keen. The auntie that took us in was auntie Grace, a lovely old lady and really kind. Then there was auntie Marie who married  Mr. Singh. Then a rather stunning young aunt called Wendy; all the boys loved her and wanted her attention.

I was very rebellious and got into lots of trouble, can't remember exactly when it all started but for some reason I just would not conform no matter how hard they tried with me. I can remember being sent to Mr. Dicker's office for the ruler across the knuckles on a regular basis so much so that he quite liked me.  He used to say "Diana not again. Why do you keep getting into trouble and make me punish you." Sometimes he would just send me away without the ruler if I promised to behave.

I went to the primary school in the home and also took part in activities after school in the hall which were tap dancing, ballroom dancing and ballet, not any good at it, but at least it meant staying up a bit later. I was also in the church choir. I am tone deaf but liked going to Bible classes on Tuesday nights, as a person was picked every week to recite the Catechism and if correct got sixpence. I also rang the church bell but used to make more noise as I could not control the rope and it used to crash against the wall. I also used to go to the press shop and turn the wheel sometimes to print the paper.


Diana with her brother Tony and younger sister Cherry at Banstead Station when there were still two tracks.
I was rather naughty but I passed my eleven plus and got sent to De Burgh grammer school following in my brothers footsteps.  Unfortunately I told everyone that I was from a childrens home which made life unbearable for my older brother as he had never told anyone. When they found out, he suddenly only had a few friends, you see there was a stigma about being in a kids home; we were classed as the dirt of the area and all trouble outside was put down to us. That is how I was treated, so I rebelled. I did not learn much and I was always looking out for a way to be sent home.  The only lesson I enjoyed was any kind of sport, except hockey when the others would hit me with their sticks. They finally expelled me, not that I am proud of it now, but then my only thought was - great no school.  I didn't reckon on them sending me to the Orchard to Mrs David; what a lovely woman.

After being in Beechholme for eight years I was totally out of control so I got sent to Pine End boarding school in Reigate.  On the morning of my departure I arranged for my friends to open the staff room window when they saw me in there with the staff.  They did and I jumped out and tried to run away but they caught me and I was on my way to this other place.

That was my young life but I am a completely different person now, completely the opposite to what I was then.

I have three fantastic kids, all grown up now with children of there own. Living in the kids home had its ups and downs in my life but I can tell you it makes you value family, especially chidren and grandchildren. It has given me such pleasure to have these around me now and as a parent I could not be prouder. They are my life and I can't imagine being without them, but as Clive says, you over compensate.

Janice Langford with auntie Nikki and auntie Kay
Janice Langford with auntie Nikki and auntie Kay outside Elm House - Beechholme
Back to the home - we were in Acacia with other kids but a family we were close to were the Langfords, David, Janice and Joy. Does anyone know of them? Also do you remember anyone else from the house and can you remember having to queue up for that awful spoon of malt every winter morning when they used to shove a big spoon of it in your mouth. We also had to amuse ourselves as the uncles and aunts were always in the office. You had to knock on the door to speak to them. I was smoking by the time I was nine, not something I am proud of but I wanted to be with the older kids as they had more fun. We used to go to the Chocolate Box and try and buy cigarettes it was 5 Park Drive then.  We used to buy single ones. She was a lovely lady who owned that shop, used to give me sweets because I came from the kids home and gave her sob stories.

My sister left the home in 1973/4 just before it closed. She was moved into Ash I think; can anyone remember her or another girl called Susan Doolin. I also spent a lot of time in sick bay that was scary.

Well I have enjoyed reading the other experiences and I know that this just breaks the tip of an iceberg of our individual stories.


Note from Webmaster - I was intrigued to find out how Diana had made the change and she says:-

 I made lots of mistakes in my early adult life, mainly because of not having any knowledge on how to live in a family. I was, and still am over protective with my family.  I got pregnant at 18 years old, single mum, and did not have a clue on how to raise a baby but managed for a year muddling through. I then met my husband who I am still with today and happy.  


Note from Webmaster - If you knew Diana or her family, or others she mentions, do write and tell us here.
Public contribution to BHRG November 2009 - Memories from Peter Farmer.

I came across your site the other day whilst Googling an orphanage for an elderly neighbour.

I went to Beechholme with my younger brother Eric in 1955, I was nine years old at that time, my elder brother Graham having arrived the day before.

We lived in Ash House, which I think was the first or second house on the right as you went through the big gates. Mr.and Mrs.Davies who were both in the Salvation Amy were the house parents. Mrs.Davies was a wonderful singer and when she walked around the kitchen singing it made kitchen chores not so unpleasant. They were lovely people!

 
The boy  top left,with his arms folded is Alan Wells, next to him (surname only) is Knowles and next to him, is Stephen Akintabubu. Further along the row the tall boy with blond hair is Keith Aldridge and in the same row, at the end with the black hair is Jan Kusak from Poland.   In the front row, the little blond on the left is Mr.and Mrs.Davies' daughter and two up from her is her little sister. Directly above them are the Powell brothers, from the left,Tommy, Johnny and Bobby. They were mine and my brother Eric's best mates.  Mr Davies is the gentleman on the left of the picture, right at the back with glasses on , that is my brother Graham in front of him.  If you go along the back row you'll see the tall lady , that's Mrs.Davies.

That's isn't a badge on Graham's  T-shirt, he's holding up one of those tiny little photos they used to have in those days. The picture is of two girls he used to know; he always fancied himself as a bit of a ladies man!

Mr and Mrs Davies Houseparents – Beechholme
Mr and Mrs Davies
I can remember of some of the lads that were in Ash House at the same time are the three Powell brothers (see picture above), two of whom were twins, Tommy and Johnny if my memory is right and Bobby. There was Ronnie Blattner and Henry Didham, who burnt his arm badly when a petrol pump caught fire.The pump was near the tailor's shop as I recall.

Mrs.Clegg was my teacher (I enjoyed those little nature walks) until I passed my 11+ exams. I was lucky enough to get into Salesian College at Battersea and commuted to there from Banstead for a year or so. In 1962 I thought about migrating to Australia and having made my mind up to do so I boarded M.V.Fairsky at Southampton docks on 22nd February 1963 sponsored by The Big Brother Movement. Quite an adventure for a sixteen year old. I lived mostly in Sydney, until just over 11years ago when I moved up to the Central Coast.

 It would be good to hear from anyone who was in Beechholme. Thanks for your site, I was on it for hours last night.

My brother, who has lived in New Zealand for the past 11years, is coming over to Oz for a visit. I told him about the site, so he is going to bring some pictures of our days in Beechholme. I'll post them to you. 

Best regards Peter Farmer..... Peter was as good as his word and his photos are shown below

Webmaster has Peter's contact details.

Beryl Simner Beechholme
Beryl Simner

Jan Cusak – Beechholme
Jan Cusak
Gillian Raynes Beechholme
Unknown, Gillian Raynes Beechholme
Alan Wells, unknown,Jan Cusak
Alan Wells, Unknown, Jan Cusak

Public contribution to BHRG
Tony Lynham in 1949
Tony Lynham in 1949
April 2009 - Memories from Tony Lynham an old friend of John Bonnette

My early days were a constant upheaval. The war years separated me, an orphan, from my Grandmother in London to evacuation in Devon. World warII ended and I was returned to London, In a few months was dispatched to Banstead Residential School. It was the early summer of 1946 and I was eleven years old.

On arrival at the cottage of Miss Curtill I was shell shocked by her abruptness and severity. The slightest misdemeanour brought about unnecessary sternness and rebuke from the short stocky woman who possessed a severe expression and angry eyes that stared through thick spectacled lenses.

There was very little humour in her cottage for two years of my three year term in the School. She took away two years of my youths happiness. Sad but true. Evening meal or tea was generally two slices of bread and jam with a little cheese, very occasionally there would be soup. We were always hungry. One learned very quickly that where you sat at the table, plus the speed of the hand when reaching for a piece of bread that might be a few thou thicker than another, Made all the difference in the equation for filling one's stomach.

Miss Dougliesh the Scottish assistant when in charge fed us a little better and would occasionally make soup when we returned from the football field.

Boys of my age were in bed by eight o'clock, lying on their sides whilst in the summer the sun streamed through the large dormitory windows. A toilet bucket was placed on the landing on the 1st floor. Talking was not permitted. In the morning there were jobs to do before breakfast Leaves to be swept up, outside toilets to clean, the yard to sweep, dormitories to tidy, beds to make, and woe betide a child who neglected their duty in any shape or form.

We gratefully went to an outside school but on returning to the Residential school in the evening you would find yourself darning your socks before tea. They would be examined by the finger probing Miss C, and if you were in her bad books she would cause more holes to repair and any hopes of going to the sports field would be dashed.

A child named Robinson, a small skinny lad kept running away but was returned by the Police. He actually went for a knife one evening and threatened Miss C with it. He finally placed it down after some persuasion but it served to confirm that not all of the children were happy by any means. I actually sleep walked into the pantry one night. I awoke to her shouting and threatening me with all manner of abuse. I was obviously confused and for a punishment was made to stand in the downstairs passageway for several hours for a couple of nights afterwards, staring at a picture on the wall of a Welsh valley.

I recall one day after a snow fall she took us for a walk. A snowball was thrown and that was followed by an assault which would have put the Allies at Normandy to shame. She fell over in the snow and received a snow pummelling I doubt she ever forgot.

Older boys were given more respect and slightly better treatment but I suppose that's acceptable to a degree.

Miss C would stand in the bathroom and stare at us washing and bathing. Her eyes were everywhere but then so were naked little boys who were very aware that it did not seem appropriate when you're approaching 14 years of age for an adult woman to be in your midst.

Then came a wonderful change for some of us. Those that had reached 14 years of age were transferred to another cottage across the Avenue. It was a joyous occasion for we were now in the hands of dear Miss Coates. She proved to be completely the opposite to Miss Curtill. (I'm uncertain about the spelling of her name) and gave us a wonderful feeling of freedom. She would sit in the kitchen in Rendal and rock with laughter as we all strived to amuse her. She was lovely and her assistant Mrs Husan was equally so. We pushed Miss Coates up Boxhill on one outing and would do anything for her.

Three of us (including a boy named Eric Law) climbed down a drainpipe one night. We ventured to the girls end of the school and conducted a kiss chase game in the sports meadow. The girls also escaped from their dormitory. However on our return up the lane at the rear of the Admin block we were apprehended by Mr Raynor. At 8am the next morning his cane delivered six of the best onto our unprotected bottoms. Miss Coates hardly said a word bless her.

Tony Lynham in 1948
Mr Kelly watches Tony Lynham vaulting over the horse in 1948.
I remember John Bonnette very well. I recall his humour and his cheeky grin. He pulled faces and made us laugh. I certainly recall his being in the band. I remember going to School with Eric Law. I recall too Stanley Clark and Alex Cummings. They were older than I and had more freedom. The school football team lost to a neighbouring team and Stanley Clark commented to Miss Coates when she enquired how we got on. "We won" he said. "That's wonderful" she replied, "what was the score?" "We one, they six." came the clever subdued answer.

One evening the Banstead scout troop came to entertain us. I recall taking an opportunity to sing at the piano for the school. The song was Have I told you lately that I love you. a Bing Crosby song. I wonder if anyone remembers that evening in early 1949. When our hearts were light.

There were a few people who were involved in strange activities of an intimate nature and no doubt they know who they are, but generally speaking with the exception of one or two people in authority who cast dark shadows, the Residential school known to many as Beechholme later, in the forties was better than many private schools.

We had a band, a swimming pool, two sports fields, a cricket pitch, a church, and healthy Banstead downs air. We had summer fete days and sports days. We even had ballroom dancing lessons where boys were taught how to invite a girl for a dance.

That final year we also went to camp at Walton on Naze. (If you're reading this Valerie, do you recall creeping into my tent in the middle of the night, just for the hell of it. It was 2am and I thought you were really daring).

Mr Raynor asked me before leaving the school "What are you hoping to do Lynham?" "I want to go to sea sir." I replied. "Jolly good, he said beaming, "a life in the Royal Navy, excellent idea." "No sir," I replied, "the Merchant navy." I recall he studied me for moment with disappointment spreading over his face. "Not very good at all." he muttered. "Close the door when you leave."

I've been in three walks of life where discipline is paramount, including the Merchant Navy, the Parachute Regt and the London Fire Brigade. The grounding I had at Banstead Residential School, certainly in the final year, was very sound and stood me in good stead for all three.

I learned a poem: Vitae Lampada by Sir Henry Newbolt (The lamp of life) I hope there is someone out there who can recall the meaningful words. I certainly can. If you wish to contact me please do via this webmaster link.

Tony Lynham

Message from Webmaster.

After 50 years or so, I am very pleased to report that Tony and John are now back in touch with each other . The following is just the start of their exchange of emails.

Hello John

Great to receive your reply. I thought as two years had passed since you sent that text to the Beechholme magazine perhaps you were not around anymore.

Well on reading your piece I recognised immediately that you had some memories of Banstead Residential School.

Strange but I remember you completely. We slept in the same dormitory in Kendal, you just inside the door on the left as you walked in. I was on the right behind the door. Your mannerisms and humour I recall to this day. The pulling of faces (jutting out the jaw). It was intended to make people laugh and they did..........

Vitae Lampada by Sir Henry Newbolt

There's a breathless hush in the Close to-night -
Ten to make and the match to win -
A bumping pitch and a blinding light,
An hour to play and the last man in.
And it's not for the sake of a ribboned coat,
Or the selfish hope of a season's fame,
But his Captain's hand on his shoulder smote
"Play up! play up! and play the game!"
The sand of the desert is sodden red, -
Red with the wreck of a square that broke; -
The Gatling's jammed and the colonel dead,
And the regiment blind with dust and smoke.
The river of death has brimmed his banks,
And England's far, and Honor a name,
But the voice of a schoolboy rallies the ranks,
"Play up! play up! and play the game!"
This is the word that year by year,
While in her place the School is set,
Every one of her sons must hear,
And none that hears it dare forget.
This they all with a joyful mind
Bear through life like a torch in flame,
And falling fling to the host behind -
"Play up! play up! and play the game!"

 
Do you remember Elizabeth (Beth) Chalk? :

Frank writes : Hello, I hope you can help me, I am doing some research on my mother Elizabeth Ann Chalke ( chalk ) who was a resident at the Beechholme School, Banstead. I believe she was there between approx 1937 to 1954 and was also known as Beth.

Frank Rowsell

We have already established that Beth started at Beechholme on 15 Feb 1939. Her DOB was 20 Sept 1935.
That's about all we can tell Frank. If you remember Beth please mail the webmaster . Thank you. LW

 
Public contribution to BHRG
Joy Dawson and friends - Beechholme
Joy wearing the skirt on the left of the picture
out on a hiking weekend during the 1940's
March 2009 - Memories from Joy Bridges nee Dawson

I am an old scholar from Beechholme, born in 1935.

I remember Mrs Lloyd the Matron and also Mrs. Hoare.

When I first arrived at Beechholme I lived in cottage 9 where my cottage mother was Mrs. Weir.

On getting older I moved to cottage 6, where my cottage mother was Miss Sunderland who was a lovely lady.

I moved onto to Roedean, sleeping in cubicles. We had pillow fights and midnight feasts. One girl couldn`t join in as her toe cracked. Her name was Violet Bunyon.

I remember one day when I collected my pocket money and went to Sutton market with a friend. I bought two little yellow chicks for a shilling; we didn`t tell the cottage mother. I put them by the side of the black lead boiler to keep them warm; I remember it well as I cleaned it many times.

Beechholme boys in the 1940's
Beechholme boys in the 1940's.
It was not long before the cottage mother heard chirping and she made me take the chicks to the matron who very kindly let me keep them in her back garden. I used to feed them when I came home from school. Eventually they died, but we did not have them for dinner!! We never had any eggs either!!

I also remember that we used to go to Epsom Downs Derby Day to the fair.

I am really looking forward to reading the book on Beechholme and have enclosed two photographs.

I now live in Southend in Essex.

Joyce Bridges. ( Maiden name DAWSON)



NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER -

Do you recognise anyone in the photos? Do you remember Joy or the chickens? What happened to Violet Bunyon? Write in. and tell us.

 
Public contribution to BHRGMarch 2009 - Memories from Penny Wright - but which house was she in?

Hello, I came across your website on Beechholme and after several weeks, have the inclination to add my little bit of information on myself and my few Beechholme memories:

In approximately 1952/53, ( was about 11 years old) myself and 5 brothers and one sister were all split up (apart from my 2 youngest brothers who stayed together) and sent to various Residential Homes. I was first sent to Ashford Residential School in Middx, (another story!) and then sent to Beechholme 1953/54. I seem to have quite a memory block, and I'm not even sure which Cottage I was in, and I sometimes get mixed up with the 2 homes.

I remember that I was terribly unhappy, at not only leaving my mother, but my brothers and sister as well. When you think of it, it was a terrible tragedy, the things that happened in those days. Forgive me if I mix up some events between Ashford and Banstead, but some things I do recall are:
Going on the bus past Banstead Downs, where we (the children) used to pass the 'Looney Bin' on the way to Sutton to Glastonbury Secondary School, where we were known as the 'Home kids'.
I recall scrumping for fruit in the orchard at the back of the home. Also, myself and several others managed to go outside and do some carol singing at the local houses.
I also recall going to Walton-on-the-Naze for a camping holiday. When I was 14 (in 1955) A teacher (can't recall her name) took myself and about six or eight other girls on a bicycle holiday for a week, and we went to various places - Bath was one of them, and we stayed in Youth Hostels. I was really happy doing that, and I've got some photos with the Teacher and some of the girls.

I also remember that I was forever running away, and myself and several girls (strange that I can't recall one child or friends names) managed to abscond for several days at a time! I think I was rebelling, and thank my lucky stars that on the last time I went 'awol', I recall Mr Banner (Yes, he's the only name I recall) hooked me round my neck with a walking-stick and said "Miss Wright, the next time you run away, you will go into a Borstal!" I obviously didn't run away after that, because I didn't go to a borstal!

I must say, that I think the traumas of childhood (it was bad at home before Beechholme due to my Father) and the homes did affect me, but 3 husbands and about 40 different addresses later, I've finally found some peace.

It seems strange seeing all the details that ex-inmates (!) have written and I will try to sort out the pictures for you as soon as I can.

Penny Wright.

 
Public contribution to BHRGFebruary 2009 - Memories and 'Maple' photo from John Ireland.

I recently can across your site regarding Beechholme, and was surprised to see articles and stories from some of the children that were there at the same time as me.

I was in Maple house with Miss Sunderland whose name I once mispronounced as "Miss Thunderland" the resulting punishment was such that I never made that mistake again.

Beechholme kids on holiday in Wales

I remember Gillian Stiles (who I did manage to meet up with after we had both left Beechholme) Frank Heard and his sisters, John Martin, Carol Hislop (I believe she had a brother), Nicky, Anne and Abigail Fudugba (not sure on this spelling) and of course many others.

I have attached a photo of the Maple house "Tribe" on holiday in Wales. I'm sitting behind Frank Heard, the boy with the bandaged leg on the right of the picture. If my memory serves me correct, this was caused by his leg being trapped between a tractor and mesh fence. Frank was like that; if something was falling, swinging or being thrown, you could bet that Frank would be the guy there to collect it.

I will try to put some of my recollections together for you. Unfortunately like so many others, it is the brutal and spiteful treatment that remains uppermost in one's mind, but also there were some times that still to this day, bring a smile, so I will endeavour to recount these times.

If you feel my stories would be of interest please do let me know.

John Ireland

NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER -

I contacted John on the very same day and it turns out that he has a diary which he kept at the time, so there will be further memories to come......... If you can identify any of the individuals in the photo please mail the webmaster.

This is one of John's many stories:-

I was a fully paid up member of the Beechholme escape (sorry, I mean leaving without permission) team and on several occasions took it upon myself to go and visit family relatives around the country.

Most of these journey's were taken without any fear of the travelling, only the consequences of being returned to Beechholme which was of course was never in any doubt.

I have recounted below one of my journeys when trying to visit an aunt who lived in New Cross London, the details are from my diaries of the time.

Travelling without rail tickets I managed to get as far as Newcastle!  The name on the station board looked like New Cross to me as I never did pay attention during English)!   Once in Newcastle I thought I was in a different country and couldn't understand a word anyone said.  Iwas so hungry and cold that I "surrendered" to the nice lady that was cleaning the toilets and who in turn passed me on to a porter, and so I was passed on until eventually I finished up in the station master's office. He kindly offered, and I promptly ate, his whole stack of sandwiches (the look he gave me, I now recognise as - I only meant for you to eat one!), after which I was collected by the police and taken to the local police station, once again I was fed and given a Beano to read (I still have this).

All of these people I met after my "surrender" were so kind; this was however in stark contrast to the guy from welfare services who collected me and spent the whole journey back to Beechholme telling me the extent of the punishment that I could expect on my arrival back.

It was late when we arrived back at Beechholme, so you can imagine no one was happy to see me after having been woken from their sleep. I can remember going through the house to the dormitory on "tiptoes" which was more due to some dark shady member of staff having me by the scruff of the neck than me trying to be quiet. Later Miss McDermott crept in with some biscuits and a beaker of milk telling me not to make any crumbs and to hide the beaker. Bless her, she was a candle in a dark place.

Later the next day I was given the cane by I think (this hurts me more than it hurts you) Mr Dicker. I do remember that at no point was I asked where I was trying to get to or why. I had a story prepared that I had got lost on the way to school, so it's probably a good thing that I wasn't asked.

This was not my last time to leave "without permission" and as my reading improved I eventually started to arrive at my intended destinations, although not without first misreading and mixing Cardiff with Catford where my Grand Mother lived.  Once again I finished up in a part of the county that I thought was inhabited by foreigners but that's another even longer story....




25 Nov 2008 - FRANK HALL passed away last night in the city of Tacoma which is about 30 miles south of Seattle USA.

Robin Chalmers writes- About five years ago I was asked to be a member of Washington State Hall of Fame Committee for football. I met a fellow by the name of Frank Hall. He and I both being the only Brits among a whole group of Americans immediately hit it off. What was truly amazing is that Frank lived in Beechholme and attended the boys school in Picquets Way during the war from 1940 up until about 1950.
 
Public contribution to BHRGOctober 2008 - Memories from Helen Bowker about her mum, Vera Ida Washington.

My name is Helen Bowker and my mum was at the school from 1925 until 1935 but she never knew who her mum and dad were. I only have her dad's name and I have been trying to find out anything I can about her although she has died now. I feel it is part of me also. My mum's name was Vera Ida Washington and the superintendent at that time was a C L G Raynor. I do have all her papers from the school but it is any contacts who may still be alive who knew her that I am trying to trace or any photo's that there may be with her on.

I have looked through all the papers I have from the school and they are quiet vague. She appears to have gone to the school's hospital a few times and it then says returned to cottage. The address it gives is Fir Tree Road and most paperwork is signed by C L G Raynor as either headmaster and then superintendent. My mum did not say much about the school when she was alive as she was only five when she went in. She talked about a cottage and they all had chores to do. I am sorry I cannot tell you more but my mum only spoke about an aunt who was Alice Barrett who could have been her real mum, fetching her in and out of the home or one of Alice's other two sisters was her real mum.

I do know that Alice Barrett was her aunt (or her mum) at 41 Fletcher Rd, Acton Green, Chiswick and her maiden name was Barnhouse which was my mothers mum's name as I have the birth certificate. The only thing is her mothers name is down as Ida Barnhouse and there was not an Ida in the family, only Alice, Elizabeth and Eliza so one has to be my mothers mum. A bit complicated I think....

Thank you. Anything that might crop up with your help would be great.
Helen Bowker
CAN ANYONE SOLVE THIS RIDDLE? Helen wrote again in March 2009 -
I keep reading the papers I have got of my mum's from the Banstead school and on one it says
(please read the file on La Marsh George), have you any idea what that would be or is it a place?


NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER - Helen's mum is listed on a register of admissions we have which shows basic details as follows:
DOB 17/12/19. Left the school to go "to trade" on the 28 March 1934 and presumably returned, to leave again on the 10 Oct 1935 to go into service.

If you have any more information that could help Helen find out more about her mum please mail the webmaster.

 
Public contribution to BHRGOctober 2008 - Enquiry from Valerie Kassl about her father Edward Henry Gent/Baker.

I am trying to find where my father was placed after he and his younger brother were removed from their family home in Chelsea somewhere around 1907 or thereafter. I understand that some indigent children from the Chelsea area were placed at Beechholme and was wondering if you could possibly check the old admissions register. My father died in 1955 when I was seventeen and he rarely spoke of his childhood, but did say that he was in a home in the South of England and his younger brother was placed somewhere in the North.

My father: Edward Henry Gent born 24 Feb 1905 (GRO 1905 Mar Chelsea/1a/407). Although he was registered as Edward Henry Gent, he was always known as Edward Henry Baker (his mother's maiden name).

My father's brother: Levi Arthur Gent born 10 Jun 1906 (GRO 1907 Mar Chelsea/1a/412).

I looked into various sites on the web regarding Beechholme School - all very interesting but nothing (as far as I can see) pertaining to the period 1909 to 1921 (the time that my Dad and uncle were there) and I would like to know about the school and its residents.

I was wondering if you know of any other folk whose parents were at Beechholme between 1909 and 1921, there should be quite a lot still around (I am 71 and still healthy and well). I would really like to hear from others whose parents were there at that time - maybe they knew my Dad and uncle - you never know.

Any information you can supply will be very much appreciated. Thank you.
Valerie Kassl (nee Baker)

NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER - The register we have covers a few years from 1933 onwards so we were unable to help Valerie directly however if you know anything about Beechholme between about 1910 and 1920 please mail the webmaster.



Valerie describes the process of recovering her father's records:

First I contacted the London Metropolitan Archives online with a short e-mail giving my name and address and relationship to whom I was looking for with Subject Line: Beechholme school, Banstead. I gave details of who I was researching - name, date and place of birth, last know location, etc.

I also received a reply from The City of London enquiries service. It was a very straight forward process and the cost was about £30 - well worth it.

I received a report giving some general information on Beechholme as well as my father's details - it took about 5-6 weeks to get the report. I suggest that anyone interested should first contact the London Metropolitan Archives.

Lewis Wood, the BHRG webmaster has helpfully set up direct links below. These will open up a new blank e mail correctly addressed to the right place with a subject heading of "Beechholme Residential School records enquiry - ".

LMA logo
Click here to start mail.
City of London logo

Click here to start mail.

Good luck with your search.

Val

 
Public contribution to BHRGAugust 2008 - Memories from James Daly.

Greetings to you all

James Daly 2007Have just found your web site and that brought up many happy memories so will try and add to the story.

I was known as James (Pug) Daly born 7-10-1940 and I lived in Banstead School (Beechholme) from 1945-1956 then sent home ??

My younger brother and sisters also spent some time there, Keith, Carol and Yvonne. They went home earlier as far as I can remember.

Some of the staff that I recall are Raynor, Banner, Kelly (also his dog Rex) and Miss Nichols.

Some of the kids' names were Tony Sharp, Ivor Brinkman, Diane Willams, John Longa and Danny Green. We all were quarantined for a time with Polio but we all came good.

The things to do and the places that we went made for many happy days. Reading the letters on your site are very much as I recall.

I have no photos anymore - all lost on life's travels.

Best regards

James Daly

NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER - James also provided his email and contact details and would also like to hear from anyone who remembers him. Please reply via the webmaster.
 
GILLIAN STILE LOS VISITS BHRG

Gillian Stile Los
Gillian on the breezy Downs.
On Monday 21st July 2008, Gillian arrived at Banstead railway station on her two yearly trip from her home in California. Gillian spent her whole childhood at Beechholme and has kept in touch with many children she knew at the time. She travels extensively and spends a lot of time and effort visiting ex Beechholmers.

Gillian was met by Lewis Wood, your BHRG webmaster and Ralph Maciejewski, BHRG secretary. We had a very pleasant lunch at The Mint in Park Road. Ralph showed Gillian the draft of the new book and lots of photographs. Gillian's memory of Beechholme is pin sharp and she was able to describe all the locations in the photographs in great detail, often adding considerably to the information we already had.

After lunch, we drove past the memorial and the Woolpack, and the Waitrose Supermarket which Gillian remembered used to be the Village school. Further along Banstead High Street, we went past the church and further still Woolworths, where Gillian once worked.

Gillian and Ralph
Gillian and Ralph with the first draft copy
of the new book on Beechholme.
We crossed the Brighton Road - "much more traffic" remarked Gillian - and stopped in Nork. We walked along the parade of shops where Gillian reminisced over her trips to a small coffee shop, now no longer there.

We then drove along Fir Tree Road and up to Epsom downs where we had a fine view across the whole of London. The sun shone but as always, it was a little breezy.

We took Gillian to the new Epsom Downs train station which is now at the far end of a housing estate and considerably smaller that the nine platform station it used to be. After that we drove around the old Beechholme site noting several streets named after the original Beechholme houses.


Press 'Play'
Thank you Gillian for coming all this way to see us, and all your friends.

Gillian caught the 5.35pm train from Banstead station to Victoria but before she left she recorded this short message for all you Beechholmers out there.

............. So where are you all?

If you or your relatives spent any time at Beechholme, do write in and tell us about it. We very much like to hear from you, and if you wish, we may be able to put you in touch with others who were there at the same time.


Lewis Wood
 
Public contribution to BHRGApril 2008 - Memories from Susan Charlott (now Mrs Susan Furlong). Pictures to follow.

Quite by chance I have found this site . I am really pleased, as it establishes the fact that I did not dream the past and that it really did exist.

I went to Beechholme in December 1960 when I was just three months old. I stayed there on and off with my brother and sisters, eventually leaving for the last time in June or July 1967. My brother's name is Kenneth, then there is Carol, myself, Judith who passed away in 2006, Lorraine and Chrysella. Someone may remember our names hopefully.

I have a memory of standing in the playing area listening to trains passing by and willing them to stop and take me home.

The house that we stayed in as I remember it, was very small and dark. I can remember going to the hospital which was at the end of the street we were on and seeing a baby in a cot who had been badly burned. For some strange reason this has always stayed with me and helped I suppose to see that what I saw as a bad life was really much better than what that baby had to endure. The house mother's name where we stayed was Violet. She used to like us to help in the kitchen podding fresh peas. I can remember too that porridge was always served for breakfast and without any help. I hated it. We were always told that we should think ourselves lucky to be looked after so well.

I can remember that there was a Town Hall at the top of the street and if we had been good we could go on Sunday and collect ice cream from there and take it back for dinner. The Town Hall as I call it, may well have been the Administration building; it just seemed very grand to me as a child. I remember the swimming baths and being really scared of the place.

We had small dorm like rooms and they had partitioned walls that you could see over if on the top bunk bed. I remember leaving the site once and seeing some of the big wall that we had been inside.

I stayed in this place between 1963 and 1967. I cannot remember the name of the house that I was in but my memory tells me that the houses were named after trees or flowers. I can remember that the road was pretty and tree lined.

I would like to read about this place as it did play a big part in my early life.

I would like to be able to say that I remember Beechholme fondly however this would not be true. I find myself now looking back on what could be described as a transient life. We would arrive at the home and leave the home all without warning.

I think that from an early age I must have chosen not to be noticed and as a result, I feel that I existed in the shadows. I remember that the place I felt most at ease was sitting on the fire escape of the hospital. I was given a play nurses outfit as a present I seem to remember so I must have spent some part of my birthday at the home.

I can remember eating apples that had fallen from trees; an awful stomach ache was the result of that escapade. Needless to say I never did that again. I can remember one visit by my mother to the home when she brought Milk Tray chocolates but she would not come in. I also remember getting a huge doll in a box that had discs to put in the back to make it talk. This was for Christmas so we must have been there over a Christmas time.

In September 1967, my mother committed suicide and as a result we went into care full time to a place called Dorney towers in Swiss Cottage London.

I left care at the age of 15 and went to live with my dad then went on to work for Camden council for a time in a residential unit for adults with learning and physical disabilities. Leaving there I became employed by the Jewish Blind Society until making my move to Hillingdon where I now live and until recently was employed by Hillingdon Council as a senior day center officer. I now have a thirteen year old son attending secondary school.

I do have photos and will send them on to you.

I would love to have the names of the houses and be in some kind of contact with people who might be able to put some meaning into my early years having spent time there as well. If anyone who spent time there can remember me or my mother's visit or my doll (it was big) please get in touch. Maybe I did not dream it.

Many thanks.

Mrs Furlong (Miss Susan Charlott at time of living in home)

NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER - For Susan and others who may want a list of the house names, here they are: Acacia, Almond, Ash, Beech, Cedar, Chestnut, Drake, Elm, Fir, Hazel, Jasmine, Laburnum, Laurel, Larch, Lavender, Lime, Maple, Oak, Pine, Rendel, Rowan or Roedean, Thistle and Willow.
Susan's photos will be added as soon as I receive them. 21 April 2008.
 
Public contribution to BHRGJanuary 2008 - Memories from June Brown.

Hi, My name is June Brown, I went to Beechholme at the age of 4 in 1951, I was in Acacia with Gillian Los (Styles), Miss Hawkins was the house parent.

June Brown 2007The first four years of my life were happy and my mother was a loving Mum, according to my Aunt Rose. I think that had something to do with how I turned out. Unfortunately she had a weak heart and having five children took its toll. She died during a Hysterectomy operation when she was three months pregnant with her sixth child. Then my dad had T.B. so had to go into a sanatorium. He refused to allow our mother's friends and relatives to take us so we landed up in Beechholme.

I was very lonely and lacked love and affection in Beechholme but at the same time I was cared for, fed and protected from harm. I vividly remember that first day, I was very scared, they took off my clothes, cut my hair and told me to stop crying or else! I ended my stay in Hazel House with the Simmons; they were strict and spiteful, I never heard from them once I left in 1964.

May 1958
My sisters Brenda and Barbara and brothers John and David also lived there, we were together on and off. The group photo was taken in May 1958 and my brother David is the boy behind the boy third from the left.

Like many others, I too remember getting my hair cut short, going to the dentist and being gassed when they pulled my teeth. I remember being in the sick bay, hiding the medication under my pillow because I didn't know how to swallow it and I liked being fussed over there and didn't want to go back to Acacia house.

I remember playing outside a lot, climbing fruit trees and eating hard apples and plums. I also had a job, arranging the flowers for the church, I had to pick them and I really enjoyed doing this, can still remember the smell of them and the pride I felt on Sundays. I sang in the Choir briefly, also was in the brownies at Beechholme, where I learnt to knit and got an award for having the nicest finger nails!

I remember jumping down the stairs at the infant school and badly spraining my ankle. Also going to the London Hospital to get checked for T.B as my dad had the disease. I remember getting my tonsils out, being very scared and alone at the hospital.

I helped to look after the younger children when I was 11 years on.

I remember Mr Banner. He was tall, good looking and cared for us, he listened very well. I remember Mrs Banner and her sweet baby who was born blind I think and died, I remember feeling very sad about it. I was also friends with Ann for a short time, I was quite jealous when she was adopted by the Banners, couldn't think why they didn't choose me! Ha, ha.

I have been looking through the Banstead history site and think I am in the House Parade 1962 picture, standing beside Yvonne McCarthy to the left. I would have been 14 then and I recognise my sad face, and big feet! Ha, ha. I would love to find Yvonne as we were quite good friends at Hazel house. She used to punch me on my upper arm when we had a disagreement!

NOTE FROM WEBMASTER - June and Yvonne are now in touch again thanks to this website, and hope to meet up again in Summer 2009.

June Brown second in from the left in 1962 I went to Stowlangtoft Hall in East Anglia when I left Beechholme, then went to Widbury Nursery in Ware, Herts to train as a nanny. Brenda (Rose) got married when she was 19, they immigrated to Canada. In 1967 her mother-in-law looked me up and asked me to consider coming to Canada to keep Brenda company. Although I wasn't close to Brenda I had a desire to get to know her again so when I finished my training I also immigrated here. Brenda's mother-in-law paid my way with my promise that I would stay for two years. I soon settled, met my husband and got married in 1970, we had four children and now have three grandchildren!

I often feel disconnected and out of place with society, having no roots.( I think having children of my own has helped me feel more grounded in life, I worked hard to give them the security that I lacked.)

When I left Beechholme, becoming a Nanny seemed the best route for me, I was following Brenda in a way. I have always been aware of children's rights and needs and have a strong desire to protect them from harm. It took some education and practise to learn how to do it right though, as I found myself being harsh at times! I have spent my life caring for children, making sure that their early years are happy ones.

John, David and June in 1998I think my experience in Beechholme taught me what not to do with children!!! I realize that the LCC did the best they could, having hundreds of displaced children to care for so I hold no grudges, in fact I am thankful to them for all the good things, like going to big parties put on be U.S. soldiers, sports days, pantomimes, talent shows, Sunday cakes and pocket money, to name a few!!

I have been trying to get my files from the London Archives but so far they cannot find them. I would love to see what was said about me in those early years.

I am now in touch with Gillian. Brenda, who is now Rose, and I live in Canada, John and David (see photo) are in England and Barbara is in Scotland. I am looking forward to getting a copy of the updated book when it is published as I already have the original Beechholme booklet.

Thank you so much. Sincerely, June Brown.

June also sent in the following photos.

Group at Colwyn Bay Group at Colwyn Bay Tea in the garden at Lime Tea in the garden at Lime
 
Public contribution to BHRGNov. 2007 - Contact from Philip Condon (via Peter Eliot).

This photo was taken on a trip to Sandown Isle of White in the summer of 1936. Philip Condon is the boy in the bottom left corner (squinting).

He is 81 now and lives in Whonnock, BC, Canada.(Nov 2007)

He was in the home for about 6 months in 1936 as a temporary orphan. I sent him a letter out of the blue and in reply he sent me the only photo in his collection.

Best regards,
Peter

Trip to the Isle of White - Summer 1936

Public contribution to BHRGNov 2007 - Contact from Clive Parish received November 2007.

I would love to tell you a few stories of the home and also name a few of the people in some of the pictures. Clive parish aged 4 with Beechholme in the background.

The photograph of me shown on the right was taken on the playing fields at the home, when I had just arrived there.

I was taken into the home at the age of four years and I still do not know why my mother was unfit to keep the seven children; only three did not go into the home, one a baby boy, was adopted and the elder two remained at home. I and three of my sisters, Christine, Carol and Gwendoline were taken to the home direct from school one day. The girls spent a lot of time with foster parents in and out of Beechholme whilst I remained there till I was about 16 when I got a job with British Rail.

Unknown houseparent. Picture supplied by Clive Parish.Looking through the photographs on the BHRG site and Peter Eliot's website, I recognize some of the staff but I'm not sure of their names. I have a picture of one houseparent on a caravan holiday, and also two of the boys who were in my house which was at that time Kerria. The boys' names were, Henry Vaughan and Eugene Plange (spellings could be incorrect here). The house parent was a new one and I can't think of his name.

The picture was taken on holiday at Great Yarmouth Caravan Park; we were all catching eels there. I would have been around 10 so it was about 1962.

I knew a Brian Murphy, a Frank Merrit, a Dilly Brammer, a Tina Paige, and the Simmons, house parents in Hazel, as they were very very strict. Pete Mctavish took over from the Johnsons, Jean and Peter, when they left.

I remember Mr Kimber the barber, as he was more than rough and the only hair style he knew was the pudding basin style hence us boys looked stupid.

I remember spending a long time in the hospital wing as I had yellow jaundice for some time. I can remember this as if it were yesterday, as the dragons of nurses ate all my Easter eggs leaving me not one. The matron used to torment us kids with her dog.

Lumpy porridge we ate or went hungry. Corporal punishment was an every day occurrence if bad or not. Maybe the staff, some of them anyway, got a thrill out of the abuse they gave some of us kids.

I remember Mr Banner and his beloved rubber plant and his fireman hats too. One punishment was polishing them.

The female members of staff would get the male members of staff to give the punishment out: example: Aunty Joy Walker, in I think Larch or Acacia house told Mr Johnson when he came in I'd sworn at her. He did no more than pick up the metal hoover pipe and whack me with it so hard around the face, then grabbing me by the hair dragged me upstairs punched me in the face piked me up and threw me on the bed. I was cut and bruised all over. I remained in bed till late the next day so also had no tea, no breakfast, no dinner or supper the next day either. When my father came down at the weekend I was not allowed to see him as punishment. This is in my head like a magnet as this was just one of many beatings I took - this one only mild to what other things I endured and I can assure you I was not the only one to have this treatment.

The fact was that my not seeing my father was really to cover up what was going on. He was told I had been moved next door to 'Drake' (?) and we had all gone out for the day, to avoid him seeing the cuts and bruises. Others were told I had fallen down the stairs.

This form of abuse lasted many years until he left to take a new job at Throwley Road in Sutton, same type of position in a children's home.

I remember the beanstalk very well. This was our quick get away from any staff chasing us for whatever reasons.

Carol Parish. Picture is an extract from a group photo of Miss Walkers' Primary class b. Courtesy of Peter Eliot.The best memories were in fact holidays, as once away from the home they seemed to leave you alone and you got no beatings then.

My sister Gwendoline is included in Peter Eliots picture of Miss Walker's class b primary. She is the one in the middle of the three sitting alongside Evelyn on the left and Elaine on the right.Gwendoline Parish. Picture courtesy of Peter Eliot.

Peter also has a picture taken of my other sister, Carol, whilst on holiday. She is the girl in the rubber swim ring. On holiday, I went swimming most days and also enjoyed sports days back at Beechholme.

I remember the gym as we went to club night there, Tuesdays and Fridays. Mr Banner came in one Friday and closed the gym as President Kennedy had just been shot.

I used to climb the fence on Derby day to watch the cars go by.

Once on my way to the primary school, I was just doing what boys do, climbing, and cut my leg badly on a broken tap with no top on. I still have the scar today.

Just a bit about what I've done since Beechholme.

I started work in the signal box at Sutton station; it had always been an ambition of mine to drive trains you see. I worked my way up from there till I was driving trains from Norwood junction. I drove freight trains for many years then I went on to the new diesel trains but had a reaction to the diesel which finally left me seeking other work, so sadly my train driving career ended then and I still miss them.

I then worked as a self employed decorator for a while to keep myself in work as I hate doing nothing at all. Later,I got work with a company when the market was slow for my trade.

I drove a Multi drop on the open road which I enjoyed very much and I was there for many years till I was involved in a road traffic accident - not my fault I might add. This left me unable to return to work again now I just doodle around indoors all day with time on my hands, the mind's willing, the body unable.

I had a large family myself as big families are fun the only thing is I am told I spoilt my kids a bit as I felt they needed what I never had. They grew up gave me and the wife twenty two grandkids, some we see, some sadly we do not, but life goes on all the same.

Enclosed is a picture of me here. It's not great as I don't do photos of myself much.

Well let me see, yes back to the home now.

There was lots went on in the home, even scandal like a lad getting a houseparent pregnant. Goodness in those days that was a scandal especially as she was married. The abuse continued and even seemed it might come to a end as a few houseparents tried to bring it out into the open yet it seemed to me that they were quickly moved on.

I can recall one night being dragged from our beds and taken downstairs to the kitchen as someone, not me on this occasion, had eaten a great chunk of Mrs Johnsons cake. No one, we were told would leave till someone owned up. I was so tired I fell asleep on my feet and awoke to a crash, having hit the deck on the kitchen floor which was stone, and cold too. I had a bump on my head and it hurt for days. Some of us boys would take the blame just to go back to bed sometimes even when we were not involved.

A group of us lads would abscond to the field where we would climb the fence and run off onto Epsom Downs, or to Banstead Woods, or to the local quarry in Banstead which was the railway yard depot.

We would play there for hours. We went on a Sat morning to the Curzon in Epsom. Saturday morning flicks cost sixpence and we would take it in turns, one pay to go in and open the fire exit door to let the others in and all spend the sixpence sharing with who ever paid of course. Wicked but great adventures all the same and we were after all away from the home for a bit.

We did a paper round and Mr Apps the local news agent in Nork Way used to come down the home to check we were all up, shining his little torch in your face. We got paid for this but had to save most of it for our holidays. Pocket money was for me started off at tuppence increasing each birthday by a penny.

Out of this, a penny was taken back to pay for your holidays etc. With the other penny I'd go to The Chocolate Box in Nork and spend it on sweets; hence no teeth now!

We went to judo with a house parent all cramped in a little mini about as many as she could fit in, even with your face squashed up the back window, no seat belt then. We were not allowed to thumb lifts and I remember a house parent coming back from Epsom one time with a group of us kids. She thumbed a lift as we had missed the bus but was seen and reported she then left, (sacked). That's one thing, they were certainly hot on with the staff.

Christmas in the home - you got a lump of coal, an orange, an apple,an old used toy car made of tin, and odds and ends of no use. The coal I used to think would bring me luck but was soon to change my mind as we had to put it in the coal bucket anyway. So really I can't work out what the coal meant. We would go to pantomimes and shows, all good fun which made a change from listening to Jimmy Young on the radio all day long.

Television was Dr Who, and Dr Kildare but we only watched them to try and stay up a little later as we when we were told to go to bed, we would say "Oh please let us wait till the next interval". Well as you guessed, they never had no intervals anyway but as the staff mainly stayed in the kitchen or office they did not cotton on to that one for a while. Programmes at the time were Ready Steady Go, Coronation Street, oh how times have changed. Mind you I can say I would not want to go back there either.

Well even with the abuse that certainly went on there, and in a big way too, I thought much like the other kids who taught us little ones try stay out of trouble. I must admit I did rebel a lot but I was a lad and certainly did not like all the rules. Beechholme was awful in the first early years but I would agree with many others it did change for the better I guess when Mr Banner came in there. He was a fair do sort of guy although in them days if you'd asked me what I thought, I'm quite sure what my reply would have been.

Section of Stained glass window showing C. Parish as one of the makers.  Courtesy of Peter Eliot.

I also was the C Parish (2nd line up on the right hand panel) on the stained glass window as I helped with the window.

I was rather sad when the church was destroyed as we had to then go to another church in Banstead.

The Times Educational Supplement dated 20th November 1964 wrote that the windows consisted of two 15ft. high panels, both 2ft. wide. depicting St. Francis and the animals, and St. James the fisherman apostle. All Mrs. David's pupils were involved in its making. For more information and photographs of the Church and windows visit Peter Eliot's site. Two stained glass windows at Beechholme.Courtesy of Peter Eliot.

We all had chores to do like polishing the shoes till your face shined in them like a damn mirror. If they were not clean then you'd do them again, till they were. I'm sure that's why I only wear trainers today you know.

Another job was to get the coal in and you did not mind doing this in the winter as it gave you a few extra moments by the fireside, as unless toasting toast there, you were pretty cold.

Itchy blankets - I remember those very well, and night watch ha ha.

A few boys would raid the larders looking for food as we were always hungry, On several occasions I went too, but if you got caught, man you were in trouble, big trouble, but the idea was do not get caught.

Days in the home came and went, new faces appearing all the time, and it was a bit like a pecking order I guess, the bigger boys at the younger ones, so you soon learnt all the ropes and how to fend for yourself to survive life there. You had to learn to watch each other's back as bullying did not happen so much then from other kids. It was more of a status type thing in them days.

The only bullying I can recall was from the house parents, well some of them,

Good times were sports days and the run up to them. I would get up early to go running to Epsom and back, straight into the pool on the return and then in to the cottage for breakfast, which on those days was good as you could have two bowls full of the lumpy cold porridge or even egg and beans. So if you were into sports you were ok then for a bit as the house parents did like to win. That was Pete Macavish. He would follow us to Epsom in his car which I believe was a mark 1 white escort which we all had to clean for him too.

Another thing which sticks in my mind was the police constable from Banstead. He used to come around the home in his Black Maria and give us rides in the back of it as he was a good friend of Pete MacTavish. Although a good copper he was not my friend at all!

My girlfriend there was called Tina Paige, but as lads do when she was not around I'd have another girlfriend on hand.

The domestic staff that were employed there were very good to us all. I got on very well with them all and two in particular. One was (Jean) Poppy Callaghan who did a lot of cooking and some cleaning too and who I still see today, as when I got married it turned out she was the mother of my wife's best friend, so we keep in contact. Jean is getting on now but still we relive old happy memories together. The other lady, Doreen Crosby was another domestic there. She used to give us fags as we would not leave her alone till we got one. They were the happier sides of life in the home.

I'd like to just recap here. Children in the orchard were not retards as it's been described; they just went there while awaiting places in the secondary school, and most of us just lacked a mother's love. I do vaguely remember Mr Banner's daughter but from what I can remember, she was not really allowed to mix with us kids. I remember her big flowery dresses and bows in her hair walking holding her mother hand down The Avenue.

Life rolled on for us all in Beechholme, and even though my sisters were sometimes there, we did not spend as much time as we would have liked to, with each other and now even after all these years its hard to try get back what you lost - family life, real family life.

We drift in and out each others life now and then yet I cant help thinking if its the past that really does keep us segregated so to speak.

My elder brother turned his life completely around after Beechholme. I can't help wondering if he too has the ghosts in a closet as most of us did back then. It pains me still now to think of all those nasty not mentioned things that went on behind closed doors.

My brother as I say went on to become well known as a wrestler. I looked up to him then. He is my big bro still even though we don't see much of each other now. He became Johnny Kincaid, and that too is another story and is his to tell. He has written a book about his life which includes his early years at Beechholme.

Clive ParishThis is just but a small memory of my time in Beechholme but I am going to put down my experiences on paper and I will send them on to you.

Well on that note I'm going to say cheerio, love to here from anyone who may remember me. Mind they need to be patient as I said before; I will reply to e mails but need time as I do not know nothing of the computer age as such. As I was more a physical man myself can't spell either.

Cheers Clive .

NOTE FROM WEBMASTER - It's the memories that are important Clive, not the spelling.
If you remember the Parish kids let us know by mailing the Webmaster
. He always replies! In the meantime we have suggested that Clive contacts the London Metropolitan Archives where most of the archives from Beechholme are retained.
 
Public contribution to BHRG Jun 2007 - Contact from Gillian Stile (Now Gillian Stile Los).

I was in Beechholme from 1947 until 1961 (2 years old until 16) I spent my entire childhood there. I saw it change from its Dickensian mode to a more family friendly place after the arrival of Mr Geoffrey Banner as Superitendent

I have some snap shots of people and buildings. Please contact me if you think I could shed some light on the history of Beechholme. Gillian Stile Los.

As always, the webmaster quickly replied and Gillian then sent in the following:

I have written a brief synopsis of how Mr Banner turned things around for Beechholme. I have also sent you three photographs. The one on the right is me at age 7, one of Mr & Mrs Banner ( to be included in the new book)and one of me with Mr. Banner in 1987.

I read Frank Heard's letter and decided it pretty much sums up early life in Banstead Residential School in the early ‘50s. I was surprised to see my name among those he recalled as most of the names were of children in Maple House with him, I was in Acacia. It could be that I was hanging around Maple a lot because I had a crush on Johnny Martin.

Prior to the mid 1950s Banstead Residential School was divided in half, all the houses to the right of the Staff House were known as the Boys' end and were lettered with the exception of Rendal, and those to the left were known as the Girls' end and were numbered from 1 to 14 with the exception of Rodean.

Housemothers and Housefathers were referred to as Mr., Mrs. Or Miss with their surname added but usually it was just Miss or Sir.

Every summer we went to camp for 2 weeks, this usually meant Dymchurch or Walton-on-the-Naze. I always went to Dymchurch. All the children had a packed kit bag, which included a sheet and pillowcase, and were loaded onto several green coaches that took us to our destination. The Dymchuch compound was a large military barracks complete with quonset huts which were furnished with canvas beds no more than six inches off the stone floor with a blanket and pillow on each bed.

The last memory I have of Mr. Raynor, the superintendent, was during one of our weekly (Winter season) picture shows that were shown in the Gym. Mr. Raynor had the movie projector shut down and the lights put on as he walked to the stage and said” Girls and boys I have good news, war in Korea has ended”, I didn't know what Korea meant but I cheered along with all the others if only to have the picture show resume.

In 1954 Mr. Raynor retired and Mr. Geoffrey Banner became our new superintendent; with him came many changes.
Gillian Stile Los and Mr Banner in 1987 The Boy's end became the upper end and the Girls' end the lower end, all houses were given names of trees and their doors painted in bright colors of either red, blue, yellow or green. Each cottage now housed boys and girls and, in most cases, brothers and sisters were housed together. Later years saw huge dormitories being partially separated into cubicles for the older children to give them privacy.

Another big change was the Summer holidays, no more being shipped off to camp, we actually went to real seaside towns like Herne Bay, Hasting and Broadstairs to name a few and stayed at boarding houses like real families did, we even travelled there by train.

House parents were now referred to as Aunt or Uncle followed by their first names and, sometimes, just their first name was used.

Here are a few excerpts of some London County Council meetings that brought about some changes to Beechholme:

April 4th, 1950 Approval for installation of electric lighting was given.

April 24th, 1951 Banstead Residential School to be renamed Beechholme. This happened three years before the Banners arrived.

April 29th, 1952 Provisions were made to install refrigerators.

By December 2nd, 1952 there were a total of 448 children residing in Beechholme.

November 6th, 1956 Approval was given for stripping and re tiling of roofs and at the same time internal cleaning, painting and plastering was approved.

My information comes from reading the minutes of council meetings when I went to the London Archives in 2002.

I reside in Burbank, California but visit Banstead every 2 years, next visit is July 2008.

Gillian Stile Los ( last name rhymes with Close, as in near.)

NOTE FROM WEBMASTER - Let us know when you are coming over and we'll arrange to meet up for a coffee and chat over old times.
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Public contribution to BHRGContact from Susan Hillen (Now Susan Darocha) received June 2007.

Hi, for year I have tried to get information about Beechholme and could not find out anything and now I have found the BHRG and Peter Eliot's websites. I was there in 1953 age 5 with my brother Danny Hillen. My name is Susan Hillen and we lived in cottage 13 later known as Thistle.

I had a hard time finding the location of Beechholme. For years I was looking, and now its' too late to go and see it. I never realised how near to London it was.

One of the first things I remember was standing on a chair having my long red hair cut short up to my ears like a bowl on my head. All of us girls had this style and it was really awful. The picture on the right shows me with my rotten hair cut. I look back now and think ...what did they do to us?. I remember the dentist and the surgery next door when the dentist put on the black mask on my face with the gas. I was always pushed to be first.

I can remember some names the first being Sandra and Valerie Ali who were sisters and Maxine Cardigan who used to sleep next to me. She had to roll up the carpet as soon as she woke up. In the bedroom she used to jump from side to side because she wanted to go wee first but couldn't. I can't remember what little job I had back in those days. Danny, my brother was in Thistle as well. I can't remember anyone else in Thistle and no one seems to have written in about it. I don't remember the house mother or whatever they was called. I remember Charlotte she was about 18 I think and was was a helper or maid (skivvy). I don't even remember going to school even though I was there from the age of about five until about nine.

I was in the brownies as I can remember the uniform but that's it. I think I might be in the photos sent in by Priscilla Bradley (see Peter's website). Perhaps you could let me know the date they were taken. Also the picture of the four young men - I remember Peter Sharp. I have sent in the few photos I have.

I remember the Beechholme song and getting out of bed in the middle of the night for fire drill. Also at one point I was sitting out on the window ledge in the night, I must have been a sleep walker. I also remember playing out the back of the house playing blind man's bluff. It was my turn and one of the others took off the manhole cover and guided me to fall into it. I don't know if I was hurt badly - that's a blur. If any one remembers doing this to me I would like to know why. I think that was the most fun some of them had.

This group photo must have been taken when we went on holiday but I don't remember it or any holidays, but the name Dimchurch does ring a bell.

I'm the one half behind the little boy in white short trousers. The two Indian girls where Sandra and Valarie Ali, Valarie being the smaller one. We did not live far from one another when we left Beechholme and her dad had a Indian cafe in Aldgate, which must have been the first of its kind; now there are hundreds around Brick Lane and I love to find them too.

That's my brother in front of the boy at the very back. He has dark hair and his name is Danny Hillen. He lives in France now. Sorry, I don't know any other names but we must have all been from Thistle cottage. I would love to hear from anyone shown in any of these pictures.



In the picture of the five children, I Susan Hillen am in the middle. My brother Danny, is top right.

I cannot remember the name of the other boy or even if the others were at Beechholme, but the girls were Catherine and Elizabeth. They might have been from Lilly Rd in Fulham. I recall no 49 perhaps.

The next photo is of me and mum on one of her visits when she used to take me to Ann's cafe. I can't remember what I used to have.

How I wish I had more photos.

If you know of any photos that show Susan Hillen or her brother please send them to the Webmaster who will be very pleased to add them here and send copies to Susan who longs to receive more pictures of herself when she was young.

 
Public contribution to BHRG Contact from John Bonnette received March 2007 John Bonnette in 1947

I and my two sisters came to Beechholme in 1939 on the death of our mother. Then it was known as The Banstead Residential School. On arrival we were separated, I to the infants' section, my sisters to the girls' section. I was evacuated twice, once to Reigate Surrey and once to Helston in Cornwall. My sisters and I were billeted at different addresses in Reigate. My sisters stayed in Reigate and I returned to Beechholme and stayed until I was fourteen years old.

I still remember the layout of the school. You came through the main gate and immediately on the left was the head master's house, with a big yew tree in the garden. The headmaster was Mr Rayner and I had the cane off him a few times. To the right was a staff house.

You then came to a T junction. In front was the administration building, to the right and left was The Avenue which was lined on both sides with cottages. Why they were called cottages I don't know, as they each housed two large dormitories, a bathroom that held I think four baths and as many wash basins. Also on the ground floor, was the house mothers' room, and a large kitchen. At the back of each cottage was the WC and an outhouse, there was no inside WC. At night, a bucket was housed between the two dormitories, for the use of the boys.

The boys were all housed in cottages to the right of the administration building, each cottage called A, B and C and so on up to K which was the senior boys with A being the youngest. As you grew older so you moved up The Avenue. Prior to leaving I was in Rendal which was on the other side of the road to K cottage. There were two house mothers to each cottage, I can remember the ones in K were Miss Kirtell who ruled with a rod of iron and a Miss Doulgleash, who was a bit nicer. In Rendal I think it was a Miss Coates, but I'm not sure.

Down the girls' end which was left at administration building, the cottages were the same as the boys'on the right. Following on from the administration building was the school where Miss Tibbs used to slap my legs with a ruler as I wasn't much of a scholar. Then Cottages on both sides till you got to the bottom. Rodean, the senior girls building, was the last. Opposite that was the infirmary.

I remember the dentist would visit the infirmary;I think he was German. He would say "Open your mouth vide Tommy", we were all Tommy to him. The worst part was sitting waiting for your turn and hearing the the boy in front yelling, and knowing you were next.

Beyond the infirmary was a large field used for sports day and other events.

I was in the brass band. The band room was at the far end of the boys section alongside of the gymnasium. I remember band practice was three nights a week, and you had to go.

I wonder if there are any old boys left out there who will remember me. I'm seventy three years old now so I suppose its a bit much to ask. Still ya never know.


Beechholme Boys Brass band 1947

NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER - Well John, your wish is our command, and within 24hrs, our friend in Aussie land, Peter Eliot, supplied us with this picture of the brass band taken in 1947,originally sent in by Vincent Phillips. Thank you Peter.
John is the second boy from the right in the front row. The man two to the left of John is none other that Mr Rayner himself.

Don't forget to visit Peter's web site which has many more Beechholme Photos.
 
Public contribution to BHRG Frank Heard in 1959 From Frank Heard 3 March 2007.

Frank writes - originally I was from Stepney, East London. At the age of six, I was sent to Woodvale in West Norwood but I kept absconding at every opportunity, so in 1951 I was transferred to Beechholme. First of all I went to the boys' end; in through the gates, turn right up the Avenue and I believe I was put in the first cottage on the right (I can't remember the name!). After quite a struggle I eventually started going to the junior school, which is one of your photos. The only teacher's name I can recall from there was a Miss Clegg, and my favorite teacher Mr Nichols.

I think around the mid fifties the cottages became mixed, boys and girls hence my move down to 'Maple'. The house mother at that time was Miss Quinlan, a ferocious woman to say the least. She would get great joy from knocking us kids about for the smallest misdemeanor. Her assistant was a Miss Sunderland, equally fearsome but not quite such a bully.

I remember well the chores kids aged 12 and above had to do, making all the beds (properly) otherwise they would all be stripped and we would be made to do them all again. Likewise, polishing all the pairs of shoes, polishing the lino floor, washing up etc etc. In spite of this my life improved from the age of 12 when I started secondary school at Sutton. I'd catch the 164 bus outside the main gate for the daily journey to school. The big love of my life soon became Sutton United. I'd watch them at every opportunity I could. It was like an obsession. I'd get the money for this by washing Mr Banner's car every Saturday morning, a Morris 10. I took great pride in my work and would receive one shilling and sixpence to go with my sixpence pocket money each week, providing I'd been good!

At this time I was also in the brass band, playing the euphonium. We used to play on sports day as well as taking part in the sports events.

I was also in the scouts and even some of the Christmas shows. I quite enjoyed this time of my life. In my early years at Beechholme, our holidays were alternate trips to Dymchurch(St Mary's bay) and Walton-on-the-Naze, which I liked. From 12 years onwards we'd go to North Wales, Rhyl, Colwyn Bay and Landuddno. We really enjoyed these holidays.

My main love from the age of 12 was playing football most evenings a week on the 'lower field', just past the sick bay and the dreaded dentist. Some of the kids that played were Barry Watts, Roy Hiscock, Alan Moth, Terry Butler and Peter Metcalf. I also played for the 'home' team Beechholme on the 'top' sports field in our black and white hooped shirts. I remember scoring a hat-trick away to Banstead Hall boys where we won 4-1. Mr Jarrot or Jarrow was our trainer, happy days.

Opposite 'Maple'there were five lovely sisters (the Fillinghams) Sandra, Julie, Diane, Jackie and Susan. I think the house was 'Labernum' although I can't be sure. The picture of the church is easily recognisable as was Mr Kimber the short back and sides specialist!. I remember the harsh winters and trying to get the sheets off the line when they had been left out to dry all day and were as stiff as cardboard. I remember being woken around 1.00 am, getting up bleary eyed for fire drill, lining up in the hallway downstairs to be counted. Some of the boys would be steaming where they had just wet the bed.

The porridge was cooked the night before and heated up in the morning and served for breakfast, thick skin and big lumps! I still heave today even thinking about it. My two younger sisters, Flo and Rose, came down to the home in the late fifties. I don't remember which cottage they were in . By then, younger housemothers were coming in. In Maple we had a really nice thirty something Irish lady, a Miss McDermottt, so different from the previous ones. On Sundays she'd let us older kids come into the staff room to listen to Radio Luxembourg Rock'N'Roll etc. we loved it.

I could go on and on with so many stories, it would be a book in itself, but I'll give a few more names which I recall, Anita and Valarie Reigns, Carol Hislop, Jackie Howe, Gillian Stiles, Dave Gibbons, John Martin and the band master Mr Ward.

I recall Derby day, hanging over the fence down the lower field watching the coaches chug up from the drift bridge, and throwing coins for us kids. I remember the Italian Tailor (in the home) who used to taper our trousers for us so we could be like young Teddy Boys.

The square dances and film shows at the Gym, the Bedford lorry that used to carry foodstuffs around as well as take us scouts to Aldermasten for our camping holiday. We'd often help the tractor driver transfer logs from the top field to the lower field on a trailer. I remember the name Beaky who was supposed to have hung around in the woods leading up to Banstead Station.

Visiting days were every second Sunday from 2 till 4 pm, also the grey clothes we had to wear. I forgot to mention earlier, Diane was my first girlfriend, although I used to fancy her sister Julie as well. The only TV we ever watched,(the older kids)was on a Sunday evening. Half an hour of Bruce Forsyth and 'Beat the clock' followed by 'Highway Patrol' also half an hour. The radio programmes Journey into Space and Dick Barton.

I remember having gas at the dentist and still feeling sick and giddy two days later. Frank pictured in 2007

I have many stories from my time at Beechholme to tell. I really do hope to hear from you again and anyone else to do with this theme. I don't have any knowledge of computers and can only communicate by letter or phone - I've sent the only photo of myself from those days, sorry its a bit scratched up.
Best wishes
Frank Heard

NOTE FROM THE WEBMASTER - I have cleaned up the original to a reasonable state. Frank wrote again in the most beautiful and neat handwriting. The original picture shows Frank aged 15 at Sutton West secondary Boys School. (1959) If you are mentioned in this letter, do let us know.

We went to see Frank and have recorded several hours of stories and fantastic memories. If you would like to get a message to Frank, mail it to me and I will pass it on. If you would like to write to him directly, let me know and I will advise you of his address. The picture on the right shows Frank in 2007, older maybe, but there is no mistaking the glint in his eye as he recounts his amorous adventures at Beechholme.
 
Jean Middleton Dec 2006

** Star contribution to
BEECHHOLME project.**


Meet Jean Middleton. Jean contacted us after finding our piece on BEECHHOLME. For years she has kept a lot of her father's documents always thinking that one day they should be placed somewhere safe and retained as public archives.

Jean's father was Frederick Cogan who was Deputy Superintendent at Beechholme and eventually, along with Superintendent Don Dicker, had responsibility for closing down the school.

Jean's parents looked after the kids in CEDAR house and Frederick Cogan completed a project on the history and the day to day running of Beechholme from 1880 to 1964. Jean's contribution includes minute books dating back to the early 1900s, a large book containing the Government regulations for such schools, numerous copies of THE BEECHHOLME MAGAZINE, photo negatives, plans, and even the original weather vane.

Godfrey Lawson's pot

WHO IS GODFREY LAWSON?

Godfrey made this pot at Beechholme when he was only twelve years old. It was one of the items that Jean's father kept and Jean has now passed on to us.



We would love to return it to Godfrey.

If you knew him or know where he is now, mail the Webmaster .

We have had one lead on Godfrey suggesting that he was a friend of Ronke Phillips who is now a presenter on the TV programme London Tonight. So far we have not been able to contact her.

 
Public contribution to BHRG December 2006 and January 2007.

Jean Middleton gave us an old envelope with a handful of negatives. Ralph, the BHRG secretary has brought them back to life for all to see.

Jean was the daughter of Frederick Cogan who was Deputy Superintendent at Beechholme when Don Dicker was the Superintendent.

Are you in any of the photographs?
Do you recognise anyone?
Do they bring back any memories?
Do you know Godfrey Lawson? We have his pot!

Let us know and your contribution could be included in our forthcoming book on Beechholme.

Mail the Webmaster.....He ALWAYS replies!
Beechholme Anyone_for_Cricket Cricket at Beechholme
Labelled 'Beechholme under canvas'
in Fred Cogan's book.

Peter Eliot writes - I think that the young chap with the cricket bat is me. I compared it to the group photo and it was obviously taken at the same time and has some of the same people (children), so that convinces me.
Peter Eliot - Jan 2007.

The left eyebrow proves it for me! - webmaster
BEECHHOLME At the Seaside

At the seaside.
BEECHHOLME Trevor and Sister_Valerie



Jean says "The picture does not include me as I was in my 20's when we were at Beechholme. My dad, Fred Cogan is at the rear and mum is on the left of the picture."

The staff member (blonde) was called Caroline.

Trevor and Valerie are the 2 children behind the two at the front.
BEECHHOLME Trevor and Santa

Trevor and Santa.
BEECHHOLME Sports Day

Jean says "In my Dad's book, the Sports Day picture is dated 1963."
BEECHHOLME Cedar Boys

Cedar Boys
BEECHHOLME/Aunt Joyce and AuntAnn

Aunt Joyce and Aunt Ann.

Surnames ?
BEECHHOLME Tents

Camping..but where?

Peter Eliot says "I'm confident that is was taken at Walton on the Naze and the 'castle' is actually a church. I am fairly confident that the year of this holiday camp was 1954 or 1955

Also two other photos,'Cricket at Beechholme' and the 'group' photo would have been taken there too".
Party photo 1 from Jean Middleton. Is this a group of children from Cedar House?...

Now that Jean has seen the photos that we produced from her father's negatives, she has come back to us with more information on the people in the photographs.

Jean think's that this was Trevor's birthday party. Trevor is not in this picture but see below.
Party photo 2 from Jean Middleton. Happy birthday dear....who?

happy birthday Trevor says Jean.

We think the girl on the left is Ethel Johnson and Peter Eliot is now trying to contact her.
House parade Phot from Jean Middleton. The House Parade 1962
Where you at Beechholme then?

Jean has given us a banner from Cedar House. "I think the banner was probably made by my Mother" says Jean, " She was always sewing and knitting, a talent passed on to me as one of my hobbies is quilting."

Did Mrs Cogan teach you how to sew? Tell us about it.

Bruce Grant tells us "My house was Kerria. In the photo of sports day you can just make me out holding the house flag."

Roger Armstrong (Fir) says " I think that the boy holding the banner is David Broome, the boy to his left with the crewcut is Roy Stagg. The black boy is Rowland Jones."
High Beeches in the snow. Photo from Jean Middleton. Jean says "The snow picture of the Avenue could be 1963/64.

I think the mini bus was my Dad's,he bought it in order to take the children on outings. It looks as if it is parked outside Cedar."
Ironing, Photo from Jean Middleton. This is Jean's mum, Mrs Cogan of CEDAR house, at the ironing board - Quite a task!
Shoe repairer Photo 1 from Jean Middleton. Who is the shoe repairer?

Peter Eliot thinks that the shoe mender is Mr Manger and Ann Read daughter of Mr and Mrs Banner has confirmed this.

What else happened in this workshop?
Shoe repairer Photo 2 from Jean Middleton.
Group photo from Jean Middleton. Who are the individuals in this group photo?

Peter Eliot was quick off the mark, he says "I got a fantastic surprise when I viewed the group photo. The light haired lady in the background is Miss Wulff the housemother from Chestnut (previously called cottage 5). The dark haired boy close to her extreme left is myself. The dark haired boy sitting on the ground in the centre is my little brother Edward. The only other name I have right now is the fair haired boy standing, that looks as though he is talking to the boy with the ball, may be John Sands.
Chapel of the Good Shepherd. Photo from Jean Middleton. The Chapel of the Good Shepherd.

Was there a Roll of Honour in this Chapel?

So far we have been unable to find a list of young Beechholme men who were casualties of the two wars.
Haircutting Photo from Jean Middleton. Who is the Barber? Did he cut everyone's hair or did the house parents do it?

Peter Eliot tells us that the haircutter was Mr Kimber.

Jean says"In the hair cutting photo my mum (Mrs Cogan) is in the background, Gordon Steed is having his hair cut and (birthday boy)Trevor is waiting patiently.

Bruce Grant remembers the hairdresser who came and cut our hair one day and left a boy's hair half cut because he found out that we had Mumps!

Roger Armstrong - How I hated having my hair cut by Mr Kimber. His hand clippers were really blunt. They used to pinch the back of your neck. Sit still boy, he would say as you yelped with pain.
Public contribution to BHRG 24 January 2007 - Clive Atingstall

Hi, the words to the song that I remember went.

There is a mouldy dump down Beechholme way
where we get bossed about, fifty times a day.
Egg and bacon we don't see; we get sawdust in our tea.
That's why we're gradually fading away.
The teachers are real barmy. The matrons are real mad.
And poor old Bannner the man sometimes looks real sad.


Regretfully the next few verses I am still not too sure of.

I too remember the swimming pool, the laundry, and the service areas. All but my youngest sister were in Beechholme from the mid fifties to the late 1959ish time. We went by the names of Dennis, Clive, Robin and Shirley Artingstall. Dennis and I were at the home for longer than the other two and I think we were in Fir.

My brother Robin and sister Shirley moved from a different home and were in the house next door. Once it was realised that we were all of the same family. We were all moved into Acacia. I remember several families that were in Acacia with us - The Moths and the Richards.

My best friend at Beechholme was a chap called Victor Metcalf who by the way was not in Acacia with us.

I remember that on a Friday, dinner was always boiled fish (with egg sauce) which I and Victor hated that much that once a week (on a Friday) we would run away from home.

Luckily my grandmother worked for Watney's at the time and was working and living at their convalescent home at Tattenham corner, which to us was worth the walk. The cook was wonderful to us two young ragamuffin folk and always fed us with her fresh made scones and other newly baked goodies. Mind you we had to sit properly at the table, and after the scoff we had to stay at the table until we were collected by one of the staff from Beechholme. Then it was early to bed etc.

Scrumping was another way of relieving the old hunger pangs. I remember the various fruit trees scattered around the home, apple, pear, cherry and plum trees, but it was still more fun to scrump your way to a full tummy. I also seem to recall trying to eat some of the Beeech nuts of the trees that lined The Avenue.

Also and as seen in the photos, during the time when snow was covering The Avenue, having competitions on which house could build the biggest snowman.

Regretfully and for some reason I know not why. I have complete blanks in my total recall of my past, and I sometimes wonder that if I were to meet some of the kids from the home, whether or not I would be able to remember them.

Writing these memories reminds me of another thing I seem to recall. When writing home were we told to start the letter.
Dear Mum and Dad,
I hope you are both well and happy, as we are, ..........
Then you wrote what you liked after.

Anyway Webmaster my good lady is informing me that my Sunday dinner is on the table. So I must refrain from adding more to my missive to you.
Hope to hear from you soon.
CLIVE ARTINGSTALL.

FROM WEBMASTER: Hello Clive and thanks for another great selection of Beechholme memories. Our new book gets longer and longer but keep them coming.
Public contribution to BHRG January 2007 - Mrs E L Leese (nee Gibbs)

My Brother Frank Gibbs was Housemaster in Fir tree house with his wife Freda as Housemother and their children, David,Colin and Susan during the 50's,we visited several times. They emigrated to South Australia in 1961.

We visited several times and they settled there happily,they also came back to visit a few times. Sadly my brother passed away in 1990. Freda is now in a Home and we are still in contact. The 3 children have done well and Sue visited a few months ago as she had business in Ireland; she in now a Marine Biologist. I am sure this will interest those that remember them.
Public contribution to BHRG January 2007 - Roger Armstrong new information on photographs.

The photos are of excellent quality. I am afraid that I did not know Godfrey Lawson, but I recognise Mr. Kimber, Mr Manger, and children in the sports day picture showing Fir. I think that the boy holding the banner is David Broome, the boy to his left with the crewcut is Roy Stagg. The black boy is Rowland Jones. There were not very many black children in Beechholme in my day and I do not remember any racism. I did not find out about racism until I left the home and as I had grown up with Rowland and other black children, I did not see any distinction between us. That was one really good thing about growing up in care, it taught you that we are all just folk. Rowland I think was British born as he had no accent. He was almost certainly a child of African parents, yet he had an English name.

The other people that I recognise from the other pictures on the website are the Matron, Miss Hoare, and Mr Bray, of Hazel, who drove a 1936 Standard 9 car DPB 937.

The interior shots of Cedar were interesting. They show that this house had had a new set of furniture. Our chairs were old fashioned Windsor chairs stamped London County Council. I have 2 of these still in my shed at home. Those in the 1962 pictures of Cedar are newer Ercol chairs. How I hated having my hair cut by Mr Kimber. His hand clippers were really blunt. They used to pinch the back of your neck. Sit still boy, he would say as you yelped with pain.

We were in Cedar when we first arrived in Beechholme. The houseparents were Mr/Mrs Hillman. Mr Hillman was an ex army keep fit fanatic and unfortunately a sadist. Through his ill treatment I ended up in Queen Mary's Hospital, Carshalton for a year and a quarter with Rheumatic Fever. He was sacked for child cruelty in about May of 1956 and we were moved to Fir.

UPDATE FROM ROGER 6 Feb 2009 - He says "I sent for my care records from London Metropolitan Archives and I now find there is an error in my written record of my stay in Beechholme. My care records confirm that I was sent to Cedar House, Beechholme on 3rd February 1956 as I have said, but that I was sent away to Queen Mary's Hospital Carshalton earlier than I had thought, on 12th May 1956 having caught Rheumatic Fever through the ill treatment I had received both before and after entering care. I was discharged from hospital on 3rd August 1957 and joined my brother Peter, in Fir house under the somewhat better care of the Gibbs family."

Public contribution to BHRG DECEMBER 2006 - Bruce Grant writes I am looking for information on a Beechholme teacher.

The teacher's name was Miss Baker (Who later became Mrs.Day) I have a special interest in her as she used to take me on holiday and outings on my own. I was wondering if she had any photos of me as a child. She might not even be alive I suppose.

I was in Beechholme in the late 50s early 60s together with my brothers Andrew, Stuart and Malcome. I attended the home school and remember learning to swim there. One summer we went to Margate (taken by the London Black Taxis cabs) which came to the home in a convoy and took every child there. Each summer we had two weeks holiday at a seaside resort, and in the winter went to pantomimes in London. We often had trips to museums of the country. In some ways we did more that the local children!

We attended the church each Sunday and on my first Christmas there we did the nativity which was filmed by the BBC, I played King Herod but fell asleep halfway through and had to be woken up!

I remember the hairdresser who came and cut our hair one day and left a boys hair half cut because he found out that we had Mumps!

We used to go scrumping along Banstead golf course for cherries pears and apples (even golf balls). At the end of the avenue was the hall where we watched films.

We learnt to cook, sow, do our own cleaning etc good skills for later in life. Derby day was a main even for us we sat on the fence of the sports field asking the returning motorists who were head to tail in slow moving traffic if they had any luck on the betting, they used to throw us coins.

All the houses were named after a tree or bush, My house was Kerria. In the photo of sports day you can just make me out holding the house flag. We had to march around the sports field holding it and competed against other houses.

I believe the weather vane was above the hall.

They were happy times, with many happy memories. The only thing left now is the sports field.

These are just a few of my memories from Beechholme. Bruce.
Public contribution to BHRG NOVEMBER 2006 - Roger Armstrong writes - "I have the original book, having myself been at Beechholme between 1956 and 1963. I have many detailed memories, some happy some not too happy. There was a Beechholme song which does not appear in the first book. We used to recite this time next week quite a lot rather wistfully, just like the kids in other childrens homes, but the Beechholme song went..see right hand panel.

There were other verses, including one about Pop Banner.
There is a mouldy dump
Down Banstead way
Where we get bread and cheese
Three times a day
Eggs & bacon we don't see
We get sawdust in our tea
That's why we're gradually
Fading away.
Roger continues.."I was in Fir, which was the only all male house in the place. I remember many of the staff, including 'Killer' Thompson, the matron at the sick bay. I remember the specially painful dentistry with the foot operated drilling machine, Mr Ford the gardener, Mr Manger in the trades yard, the Beechholme tractor SGW 343, The Beechholme Bedford lorry, JXT 913 and most of the houseparents vehicles.

"I remember Beaky, who attacked Miss Knights one evening, don't know what actually took place but I know police were involved. I remember Roy Stagg sleepwalking out of the dormitory window and falling onto the garden below completely unhurt. I remember the ice crystal flowers that used to form on the inside of the dormitory windows in the winter, I remember the all too frequent incidents when the lights were switched on in the middle of the night and we were ordered out of our beds to stand shivering until some poor child would confess to raiding the larder. Sometimes this took hours and children would fall asleep standing up and end up concussed on the iron bed ends. The offenders would be slippered.

I remember, as I have said, many things and would be glad to contribute to the updated version of the Beechholme publication".

Note from webmaster - Thank you very much for your mail Roger. Our secretary will no doubt respond to your offer very quickly.
Beechholme Memorial postcard sent in to BHRG by Terry Shoosmith. Public contribution to BHRGAPRIL 2005 - Terry Shoosmith says, " I'm afraid I don't know the date of the postcard, but the photograph (below) is dated 1912 and my maternal grandmother is second from the left in the second row up. At that time she was Mrs Esther Downs, born 1877, a widow with a daughter of 5 or 6 years of age (my mother, born in July 1906).
Beechholme staff 1912
Beechholme staff photograph dated 1912.


"The family were originally from the Woolwich/Plumstead area of South East London, where my grandmother had served as a ward maid on one or more of the hospital ships moored in the Thames near Deptford during the smallpox epidemic of the late 1890s and early 1900s. During that time, she met my grandfather, Henry Downs, ex-Royal Navy, who was a piermaster with the same organisation, i.e., the Metropolitan Asylums Board. They were married in 1902 but he died in January 1906, six months before my mother was born.

As far as I know, my mother would have received much of her education at "The Schools". Later she worked at Dixon & Co, an estate agents in Sutton - right opposite the station - and at some point met my father, whose family home was "Whitgift", Grange Road, Sutton (now a block of flats, I believe."